Supporting mothers who want calmer homes & stronger relationships with their children

Here you’ll find coaching & courses that help mothers relax into motherhood, give their children a better start in life, and break the cycle of out-dated parenting.

Online coaching & courses available worldwide | Positive Parenting Coach based in The New Forest, UK

Because when mothers heal, we can raise an incredibly connected and compassionate generation of children.

When you’re triggered and ready to blow up like a volcano, when you catch yourself parenting in a way you promised yourself you wouldn’t, when you’re lying awake at midnight googling parenting questions because you don’t trust your own instincts – it’s time to get some support.

This is the right place for you, if you’re worried about the impact your parenting could have on your child, if you’re constantly tense, snappy and easily triggered, if you don’t want to repeat out-dated parenting tactics (probably how you were raised), and you’re passionate about giving your child the best start in life.

This is support for mothers who want to relax into motherhood (and enjoy it) knowing how to tackle challenges in a way that feels right for you; how to make your child feel seen, heard, and validated; and how to raise your child with the emotional stability you missed out on yourself.

Breaking generational patterns doesn’t happen overnight, but with awareness, support, and the right tools, change is possible. You don’t have to do this alone.

Hi, I’m Kerry ~ a parenting coach who helps mothers break the cycle of out-dated parenting, and give their children a better start in life than they had.

My work focuses on making a difference for our future generations, by making the connection between our own childhood experiences and the way we respond in parenting today so that we can give our children what we needed.

By combining practical parenting tools with inner child healing, I help mothers create calmer homes and stronger relationships with their children – without repeating the way they were raised.

“Kerry Laws is the woman you need as a coach! She blew my mind! She told me secrets – little nuggets of gold and each time I put her advice into practice, I saw drastic changes.”

~ Sophia, mum of two, age 3 & 6

Here’s how I can support you…

Watch the Masterclass: From Reaction to Reconnection

You don’t need to get parenting ‘right’ every time – in fact, your child needs to know that you’re human, not perfect, that you can make mistakes and still pull it back.

What matters most is helping your child return to safety after any conflict, and connecting in ways that support a consistent family life for both them and you.

Get instant access to the Repair Masterclass and learn what it actually means, why it’s SO important in making a difference for the next generation and simple ways to repair your connection with your child after difficult moments – including real life examples to support your understanding.

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Get Support With One Challenge On A Free 40 Minute Coaching Call

Get a taster of what it’s like to have coaching with me on a free 40 minute coaching call, where you’re invited to bring one challenge you’re struggling with that we can discuss and tackle together.

You’ll be given some insight into where this challenge is coming from, what might be underlying how you and your child feel, a new perspective to help you understand why you’re both reacting the way you are, and practical steps you can implement straight away to change things moving forward.

These calls are designed to help you, because that’s what I love to do, you’re not under any obligation to sign up for further coaching.

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The Cycle Breaking Mama Signature Coaching Program

This is my signature 8 week 1:1 coaching program ~ for mothers who are ready to relax into motherhood by creating lasting change in their parenting.

Inside we focus on:
• Understanding the triggers that make you tense, snap and overreact
• Healing the stories from your childhood that still have you self-sabotaging in every area of your life
• Learning how to regulate your emotions when it feels like the walls are closing in on you
• Holding boundaries and speaking up for yourself and your child
• Repairing after conflict and strengthening your lifelong connection with your child.

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“Kerry was kind, sensitive and so understanding to everything I shared, and I would say my life has completely changed since having her support.”

~ Kalisha, mum of two, age 8 & 11

A warm, intimate moment between a mother and daughter sitting by a sunlit window indoors.

You want to do things differently from how you were raised…

But sometimes, in the hardest moments, you still find yourself reacting in ways you promised you wouldn’t. You’ve caught yourself…

• Snapping, shouting, blowing up – causing emotional reactions in your child – and feeling guilty afterwards
• Feeling tense, stressed, and triggered by your child’s, or your family’s, behaviour
• Struggling to stay calm, or bring your child back to calm, during conflict or tense situations
• Worrying that you’re repeating patterns, or passing down generational baggage, from your own childhood

If this sounds familiar, let me reassure you – you’re not failing as a parent. The fact that you’re aware of it shows YOU CARE, deeply, and that alone tells me you’re a GOOD parent.

My work helps mothers break generational cycles by combining two powerful pieces of change:

Parenting in a way that fits you and your family ~ The dream is to be able to relax into motherhood, knowing how to tackle challenges in a way that feels right for you. To relax, you want to know your child feels seen, heard, validated and getting the best start in life, nurturing a lifelong connection from the beginning yet still leading your family with boundaries and limits, without leaning on out-dated parenting tactics.

Reparenting the little girl within you ~ Undermining the challenges you’ve been facing are triggers from your own childhood, so it’s important to revisit that experience, release the baggage you’ve been carrying, and reparent the little girl inside you, who needed more unconditional love and validation than she was given. Because THIS is where your triggers are coming from, interfering in your life, your child’s life, and the effectiveness of your parenting.